It’s very interesting to me the connections that are established in life. Specifically connections that we share due to who we are and what we do. I run most of my mileage in the mornings, 5:30 or so. It’s amazing to me how many people I “know” from those runs. There are several walkers, one gentleman in particular I see every morning I run. I know that he’s trying to make himself healthier, because people don’t just go for a walk at 5:30 AM in 18 degree F weather. I talk to him every morning, not long since I’m running past him, but there is a connection there. I know that I look for him, and wonder why he’s not there if I don’t see him.
There are also runners out there. Most are flying compared to me, but that’s OK, I’ll stick to my heart rate training. I “know” most of them also, and usually joke that they are making me look bad by flying by me. I can usually tell by their cadence and foot strike who they are. Again, they are usually gaining on me fast, so I can hear them coming. There’s one runner that runs with her dog and her iPod. She never hears me say ‘Good Morning.’ There are two ladies, maybe a little younger than I am. They always say hi, but are always in the middle of a fairly serious conversation. Lately, there have been new faces, most probably working towards New Years resolutions. I hope they make it long enough to establish that connection.
Finally, there is my connection to the members of Team for Life. When I first started, I had no connection to them. Now, I consider many of them friends, yet I hardly know them. I know little about Amie, Juan, Wayne, Trish, Scott, etc. But, would trust them with my life or more, with my kids. One of my running partners is my CF Doc, so I know her better because I know the professional side and the personal side.
There are 50+ people running and raising money basically for me. Trying, in many ways, to change the outcome of my life. And, even without raising a dollar, or finding a new treatment, they have. They make me see the good in people. Sure, they have their own goal for the marathon, or half, or relay. And we all have an ego that will push us to a certain extent. But, at this point, I like to think that they share one thing in common, which is helping me. Of course, I’m helping myself in many ways, but we can do so much more together.
I really appreciate my team, which is also a group of friends, working to make me a better person, in all the ways they do.
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